The article discusses the challenges faced by open-source maintainers, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, respect for their time, and sustainable practices in open-source contributions. It highlights the burnout caused by unacknowledged work and the need for open-source contributors to realize that they are not obligated to maintain projects indefinitely. Developers often feel demotivated due to a sense of bystander effect, believing others will step in to solve problems. The article calls for a shift in perspective about the responsibilities of maintainers and users alike, stressing the necessity for more explicit communication about project sustainability and expectations.