This post discusses various perspectives on the need for books that guide individuals, particularly those who may struggle with social interactions, on making and maintaining friendships. User comments reflect a mix of skepticism regarding the efficacy of such books, emphasizing that genuine friendships often arise from shared experiences rather than structured approaches. One user highlights the importance of consistent investment in relationships, referencing a tool they created to help facilitate meaningful connections. However, there is also a sentiment that intentionally trying to make friends feels unnatural and less valuable compared to friendships formed organically over time.